The girl in the video doesn't connect at all with her partner, she treats him as an object, a possession, just like the dolls in her home all arranged and positioned in place as her audience. Dolls are not real, they do not have emotions, she can relate to that.
Her partner knows whatever she says is brimming with insincerity, her words belie her actions. He realizes that "it's always gonna come right back to this", the same place, the same arguments, the same situations.
Watch her tilt her head when her partner falls down the stairs, she does not react at all to begin with until she sees his disbelief in her uncaring attitude. She knows she must now react and show some human emotion, and does so by running down the stairs to help him.
When her partner tries to leave her and escape she pulls out all of the stops, crying, pleading , hurting him (debilitating him) and then to threatening to kill him with an AXE.
She wants to win, it's all just a contest. She blame shifts and projects all her bad behaviour onto him.
In the end, he may be 'free' of her but as we all know, we are never truly 'free' which is why she gets up at the end of the video.
The entire charade was all a "Performance", a big dramatic scene in order to control and dominate.
Don't know if I can yell any louder How many time have I kicked you outta here? Or said something insulting? I can be so mean when I wanna be....... I am capable of really anything I can cut you into pieces But my heart is....broken
Please don't leave me Please don't leave me I always say how I don't need you
But it's always gonna come right back to this.......Please, don't leave me
How did I become so obnoxious? What is it with you that makes me act like this? I've never been this nasty
Can't you tell that this is all just a contest? The one that wins will be the one that hits the hardest
But baby I don't mean it I mean it, I promise Please don't leave me
I forgot to say out loud how beautiful you really are to me I can't be without, you're my perfect little punching bag And I need you, I'm sorry Baby please don't leave me
There are no escapes with a Queen Bee (Female Narcissist) , so make sure you check yourRed Flag Checklistbefore bending down on one knee.
"I have all the characteristics of a human being: flesh, blood, skin , hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip"
Gareth Edward(s) Rodger
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