tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5950976189778332581.post7610197811114395985..comments2023-05-06T07:24:21.633-07:00Comments on Living With A Psychopath - When The Mask Slips.: 99 Red Flags That You Are Involved With A Narcissist/Psychopath.PNDhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06007966650835440593noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5950976189778332581.post-17358199701782130742012-04-15T02:30:33.612-07:002012-04-15T02:30:33.612-07:00A great deal of this applies to my ex. He was schi...A great deal of this applies to my ex. He was schizophrenic and I just put his behaviour down to his condition. I kept offering concessions for the way he treated me because 'it wasn't his fault'. He was unemployed our entire relationship and sucked me dry emotionally and financially. <br /><br />Only now, 18 months on am I beginning to realise that I wasted the last 5 years of my life on someone who didn't care about me at all. I have tried for a long time to work out what the hell happened but your blog has really helped me see that there is more to it the schizophrenia. I feel like an idiot all over again and I just don't understand why I stood by him.<br /><br />Thank you for writing all this. I hope its helped you recover.Kitsunehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00787694138290997265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5950976189778332581.post-48088385221704777332010-11-13T13:55:22.181-08:002010-11-13T13:55:22.181-08:00Wow. I ended up on this website bc I'm having ...Wow. I ended up on this website bc I'm having a hard time dealing with my breakup with my ex. Was convinced that I'm so crazy about him b/c of his narcissism/pyschopathic behavior- which I know I'm drawn to (I know it's a problem- there is not a single stir of attraction for any man who doesn't think he's better and smarter than everyone else- no one else turns me on)...<br /><br />but reading this- I seem to fit a lot of this profile. Which is pretty confusing. I thought he was the psychopath, and now it seems like I might be too...<br /><br />Read the emails that Gareth constantly sent you trying to get a response from you, and that's why I did to my ex. <br /><br />It's like, at the beginning of the relationship, he was the narcissistic one and used that to draw me in, but by the end of the relationship we'd switched roles.<br /><br />I still want him back though. He never hurt me or mistreated me. I guess that's why I want him so badly, because I know the next guy, I might not be so lucky. And since I'm only attracted to men who I can sense danger in, I know this is pretty risky of me since I might end up with someone who really is a truly bad one.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com