tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5950976189778332581.post6937512645115425707..comments2023-05-06T07:24:21.633-07:00Comments on Living With A Psychopath - When The Mask Slips.: The Jezebel Spirit - The Female Narcissist.PNDhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06007966650835440593noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5950976189778332581.post-22672396388784067092014-01-10T23:10:21.244-08:002014-01-10T23:10:21.244-08:00I am so much of what this article says. Reading al...I am so much of what this article says. Reading all these responses breaks my heart. Please pray I free of this spirit.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5950976189778332581.post-54536817785459272942013-04-12T09:25:14.502-07:002013-04-12T09:25:14.502-07:00I live with a Jezebel I married almost 17 years ag...I live with a Jezebel I married almost 17 years ago.My health, finances, relationships with family and friends have been destroyed by her. I have been alienated from my two adult daughters from a prior marriage. She just very recently sent a horrible email to a friend of mine from childhood, essentially destroying a close friendship I've had for nearly 40 years. I'm heartbroken, yet she doesn't even know I'm aware of what she did, and she just goes about her business like nothing happened. Yet it was OK for her to travel to the west coast (we live in upstate NY) and do PR work for a band she represents with their new CD release, even though she had an affair in the past with a band member. I'm supposed to forgive her transgressions, which I have, but she expects total trust from me when she doesn't trust me to even visit my parents or siblings, let alone ever socialize with a friend. But she will deride me for "having no friends." My two minor children love their mother, but are resentful and angry over how she treats me, promotes herself, and denies even the most basic of dignities to me unless it is done in a way to make her look good publicly. She is in the music ministry of a large evangelical church, and seems so pious and loving and Christian there that everyone adores her. There is no way for me to extricate myself from this situation without looking like the "bad guy," "abusive husband," etc., but I guarantee this would be staged in such a way to make her look like the abused victim of my horrible "domination" over her. Yet I have tried EVERYTHING to keep this marriage together. Unfortunately, my health is precarious and I cannot work at this time, so my future is uncertain. I want o leave, but the need for me to be there for my children (generally as BOTH dad and mom,) plus financial problems restrict me. I am MISERABLE, but to the outside world I am highly intelligent, capable, and have great leadership qualities, and am a man of faith and God. I AM a faithful Christian and a good man and father, but trying to stay with my wife is literally KILLING me. Will appreciate prayer in order to do what I need to do to leave and regain my life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5950976189778332581.post-19563883271522414772013-01-17T21:41:57.243-08:002013-01-17T21:41:57.243-08:00This was very insightful. Thanks for posting this...This was very insightful. Thanks for posting this! NO COMPROMISE!!!!<br /><br />This was helpful in so many ways!<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5950976189778332581.post-11011855781614852022012-10-20T06:51:05.652-07:002012-10-20T06:51:05.652-07:00Incredible!. Described my MIL with frightening acc...Incredible!. Described my MIL with frightening accuracy. Praying for a Jehu anointing!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5950976189778332581.post-84547072825004886832012-08-16T22:36:47.767-07:002012-08-16T22:36:47.767-07:00Same here, I left a country and a calling to Minis...Same here, I left a country and a calling to Ministry I married bought a home had two gorgeous children with a woman controlled and manipulated by Jezebel and when I refused to be her Absolom was cast aside, my children now used as weapons against me to control and manipulate me. After having a severe heart attack that nearly cost my life the Lord God intervened, lead me into the desert where he has been teaching me and preparing me......Take heart The Lord is faithful wait upon HIM! Though the days are dark and man has fallen an army is being prepared from the body of Christ and not just those filling church pews being lead by men preaching in the flesh either.God Chasernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5950976189778332581.post-68840768554919652642012-05-21T17:58:32.596-07:002012-05-21T17:58:32.596-07:00Wow! This was the most insightful thing I have rea...Wow! This was the most insightful thing I have read on this disorder. Unfortunately, I have lived all of it with my wife.Johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12179907490563438519noreply@blogger.com